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August 31, 2003

North Carolina's gay newspaper

Category: Durham, NC

North Carolina's gay newspaper: The Front Page.

Hotmail personals (another way to meet gay men)

Category: Love and Lust

I did hear from the crossdressing cop while looking for love on Hotmail's personal ads

August 30, 2003

Why weblog? (anniversary post)

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Why weblog: reviving memories, clarifying opinions, understanding yourself and your past.

Online dating tip: meet for coffee

Category: Love and Lust

Internet dating: just meet for coffee the first time, makes it easier to get away quickly and gracefully.

Yahoo Clubs (looking for sex, maybe love)

Category: Love and Lust

Yahoo clubs (now Yahoo Groups) gay man looks for sex and love online.

August 29, 2003

Nobody loves you when you are old & gay (and feminine)

Category: Ambiguously Gendered

Gay men, feminine gay men, fear growing older.

Childhood, overrated

Category: Gallimaufry

Childhood is overrated: chronological maturity has it's joys.

Jesus' Garbage Truck

Category: Quotidian

Durham, NC: Jesus Saves written on back of a garbage truck.

August 27, 2003

Gay people "desire to be kissed, cuddled and stroked" (zoological revelation)

Category: Love and Lust

Gay Rednecks should easily disprove the myth that gay men are especially creative.

Gay monogamy: fundamentalist nightmare

Category: Love and Lust

Ex-gay Christians don't want to admit that two gay men can commit as deeply as two heterosexuals.

August 26, 2003

Psychotronic BBS, "Local," FidoNet & XRS

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

I was SysOp pf a hobbyiest computer bulletin board in Durham, NC. Member of FidoNet, supporter of offline readers for echomail.

Labels: fauxmosexual, pansexual, metrosexual

Category: Love and Lust

Labels are useful but not to be abused, i.e., fauxmosexual, metrosexual, pansexual.

Personal website as personal ad

Category: Love and Lust

Edifying Spectacle's perhistory was as a huge personal ad, I was trying to use the website to meet other gay men.

August 25, 2003

After San Francisco my sexuality reawakens in Durham, NC (Transitional)

Category: Love and Lust

Lover lost I ruin my life, later in Durham, NC lust reawakens, eventually the need for love.

August 24, 2003

Meeting gay guys: San Francisco personal ads

Category: Love and Lust

Living in SF, using personal ads to find other gay guys to satisfy my happy and natural lust.

August 23, 2003

Meeting gay boys: Atlanta personal ads

Category: Love and Lust

Lust: using personal ads in Atlanta to meet guy guys to have sex with.

Sociability & gay bars (a preamble of sorts)

Category: Love and Lust

Young gay man in Atlanta was never good in bars, went to Sweet Gum Head and didn't care for it.

August 17, 2003

The Atlanta Barb (gay newspaper)

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

The Atlanta Barb was a Southern gay newspaper in the early 70s run by Richard Evans Lee and Bill Smith who was the homophile representative to Atlanta's Community Relations Council when Maynard Jackson was mayor.

Pre-Raphaelite Crossdressers?

Category: Ambiguously Gendered

Sexism inherent in transgenderism, Pre-Raphaelite transvestites, feminine idealism, womanly purity, crossdressers slutty looks.

August 15, 2003

Foolish thoughts (abandoning your past)

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Moving away and changing my name to forge a new life.

Back to riding my bike in Durham, NC

Category: Quotidian

Bought a Specialized hotrock hybrid bike after years of buying Trek bikes from the Durham Cycle Center, bicycling for health, pleasure in riding a bicycle.

August 14, 2003

Queer black eye, boy defeats boy

Category: Love and Lust

Queer Eye for the Straight Guy and Boy Meets Boy are show many gay men will sell himself for cheap pop culture or foreskin, love is forgotten, lust dominates.

Quotidian annoyances

Category: Quotidian

What would we do without Medicaid to pay for the colestid? Without Medicare if Charles' crohn's goes out of remission?

Sexual racism

Category: Love and Lust

Sexual racism, erotic limitations, sex with different kinds of men, sexuality and pluralism. Pansexual sodomite pities the monosexual.

Blogging for truth, blogging for pleasure

Category: Gallimaufry

Weblogging for fun, weblogs and honesty, fear of blogging, why have a blog. Why I write my weblog.

August 13, 2003

Email from a man with breasts who crossdresses

Category: Ambiguously Gendered

Bless the man who is more girl than boy, salute the crossdresser, appreciate the transvestite.

August 11, 2003

Gay marriage and the Third World

Category: Gallimaufry

Conservative Spanish speaking Catholics and Anglicans oppose Gay Marriage.

August 8, 2003

Web gay marraige petition

Category: Love and Lust

Online web petition for gay marriages.

August 7, 2003

Rise of toleration (& romance)

Category: Gallimaufry

Rise of romantic marriage in Alexander Pope's day (18th Century).

August 4, 2003

Migraine headaches & Reglan (Metoclopramide HCL)

Category: Gallimaufry

Reglan (Metoclopramide HCL) has cured Charles' migraine headaches.

Rotten meat in Durham, NC

Category: Durham, NC

Rotting meat in my neighbor's back yard here in Durham, North Carolina.

August 1, 2003

Fear of the Metrosexual male?

Category: Love and Lust

Women don't lust after metrosexuals, sexist weblog comment.

Quiet Sodomite

Category: Quotidian

Sometimes it is best to let your weblog be silent, maybe make a few laconic blog entries before you resume copious blogging.

Mencken's Americana

Category: Gallimaufry

The Americana section of H.L. Mencken's American Mercury, a compilation edited by Louis Hatchett.