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June 30, 2004

Charles fell off the bike today

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Wondering if I should leave my lover. He fell from a bike and hurt his head today. Hard to think of going when he is in pain.

Gay popular culture links wanted

Category: Gallimaufry

Asking for people to provide links to web sites and essays on gay pop culture.

June 29, 2004

Spankings: would you like to give or get a spanking?

Category: Love and Lust

Gay men who enjoy receiving or inflicting a spanking on another man. Normal, sick, interesting, disturbing – what do you think?

Fear of two men kissing

Category: Sodomitical Polity

Minneapolis-St. Paul Star Tribune refuses to run photo of two guys kissing for gay pride event.

June 28, 2004

Gay prisoner not allowed letters from lover

Category: Sodomitical Polity

Gay men in prison not allowed to receive mail, letters from lovers or life-partners.

June 27, 2004

Pee on me

Category: Love and Lust

Why do vanilla gay men enjoy golden showers as a form of sex play?

June 24, 2004

North Carolina bible thumpers oppose gay marriage

Category: Durham, NC , Category: Sodomitical Polity

Should North Carolina Constitutions be amended to prohibit gay and lesbian couples to marry, or is it enough to prohibit marriage by law.

To Hell with crossdressers

Category: Ambiguously Gendered

Average gay men reject crossdressers and transvestites.

Nugatory romantic cheer?

Category: Gallimaufry

Hoping someone will suggest a few recent romantic comedies to rent from Netflix.

Ask Dr. Magic Eightball

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Nasty surprise: discover that your lover is stealing your money.

June 23, 2004

How to woo & win a transvestite?

Category: Ambiguously Gendered

Pity there are so few feminist transvestites, crossdressers who can accept that they are male.

Farting George Bush Doll

Category: Gallimaufry

Doll farts when you pull President Bush's finger.

June 22, 2004

Sodomitical quietude

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Quotidian note on one man's daily life, it isn't a gripping read. Love is a pain, work a chore. So it often is for many of us merely human beings.

June 19, 2004

Nobody Loves You When You're Old and Gay

Category: Love and Lust

Growing older as a gay man, gay men and ageism, ageist behavior among queer males.

June 17, 2004

Feminization: is it sexist?

Category: Love and Lust

Thoughts about men who want to be sissified by women.

June 16, 2004

Pose, posture: the composition of sexual beauty

Category: Love and Lust

Best looking queer guy in Durham NC inspires thoughts about how the angle of view, body language, poses, postures affect someone's sex appeal.

June 15, 2004

Gay & middle age crazy?

Category: Love and Lust

Emotional and sexual affects on gay men as they enter middle age. Do they become perhaps a little foolish, crazy?

June 14, 2004

Love is not loving

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Gay man recounts the impending end of a romantic relationship.

June 12, 2004

Passion or the lack of it

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Are romantic relationships worth having if there's no passion, no romance?

June 10, 2004

Summer in Sodom

Category: Imagery

Bad, unhappy depressing old gay fiction that used the word sodom in the title.

June 8, 2004

Taxonomy of the twink

Category: Love and Lust

Twink: a word of gay slang that may be defined as an attractive, boyish man or more complicatedly according to personal prefrences and biases.

Gay marriage = marital mayhem!

Category: Sodomitical Polity

Log Cabin Republicans are gay men and women who play into the hands of Christian Fundamentalists.

Pansexual: short & simple

Category: Love and Lust

What it is to be a pansexual man: quick and easy definition for people with short attention spans.

Would you come out to your pediatrician?

Category: Sodomitical Polity

American Academy of Pediatrics advises pediatricians to be attentive to the needs of patients who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered, or who may be confused over their sexual orientation.

June 7, 2004

Reagan's legacy & gay marriage

Category: Sodomitical Polity

The Republican Party's relationship with American religious conservatives owes much to Ronald Reagan who did nothing about AIDS.

Gay leader: marriage is between one man and one woman

Category: Sodomitical Polity

Log Cabin Repubican who oppose gay marriages, say it is for heterosexual couples only.

June 6, 2004

Online crushes, virtual romance

Category: Ambiguously Gendered , Category: Love and Lust

Danger of gay men falling love from profiles, online chatting, personal ads, instant message charmers, seductive webloggers and Live Journal

We're suckers for a hard-luck case

Category: Gallimaufry

Gay dog lovers: Sen. Thomas Duane; Ellen DeGeneres; k.d. lang; Harvey Fierstein; Isaac Mizrahi Todd Oldham; Thom Filicia

June 4, 2004

One gay man's romantic failures

Category: Love and Lust , Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Mistakes in love, errors in romance, loving wrongly, silly passion, bad lovers: even gay men can do all the wrong things when they are too romantic for their own good.

June 3, 2004

Unrealized sexuality: pansexuality

Category: Ambiguously Gendered , Category: Love and Lust , Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Being a pansexual man every kind of person, every type of body, every fluke of biology is worthy of love and lust.

Homosexuality is Shameful (I read it on a t-shirt)

Category: Sodomitical Polity

Student's shirt could encourage violence against gay and queer girls and boys

Unrealized sexuality: butch gay men

Category: Love and Lust

I can appreciate the erotic charisma of masculine gay men but have always preferred feminine gay males.

June 2, 2004

The crack addict

Category: My Life is an Open Blog

Durham, NC: my lover brings a crack addict home and lets him stay in our house.