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Pretty Femme Gay Guys

Androgyny, femininity isn’t limited to homoerotically appealing boys or attractive females.

Attraction of Queerness

Queer man attracted to gay women except when he's a bisexual man drawn to heterosexual or bisexual women.

I Want to Be a Lesbian

Even with a soap opera about gay women - The L Word - I focus on the androgynous characters: Shane and Max.

Androgynous Creature

Mad anatomy of a hermaphroditic erotic angel or demon.

Dream Fucking

Dreaming of having sex with a famous gay male actor.

Femme Gay Guys in Popular Culture

Feminine gay men in movies and television.

Boys (and Girls) in Panties

Bras, stockings, panties, garter belts : what can you say?

His Transformation Into a Girl

Lovely crossdresser who doesn't hide her maleness with a bad wig.

Male Geishas

Idealized image of a pleasing, sensuous, sensual feminine male.

Male Housewife

Gay male lover who takes care of house and home.

Acting Overly Queeny Is Not A Matter For The Law

Hooray for flamboyant sissies.

Shamed She-Male

There is a subculture of closeted bisexual transvestites.

TV Hostage

Transvestite fiction.

He's Older and Femme

Imaging have a faded queen, somewhat nelly, fem gay man for a lover.

Forced Feminization

Shaming a male by forcing him to engage in transvestitism or crossdressing.

Transvestite Art

The problems of how crossdressers are depicted on paperback covers.

Mister Sister

Novel about a feminine gay male with an Eric Stanton cover.

Happy, Happy

The heart aching beauty of male androgyny.

Christmas angel boy

Pansexual virtual Christmas card: soft androgynous gay Renaissance angel boy.

Letting Go

Of certain specialized erotic appetites.

On Butch Lovers

Loving a masculine man but wanting a feminine guy.

On Being Pleasing

Giving and accepting pleasure is often confused with simple notion of erotic power exchange.

What is Feminine?

Gender qualities are independent of genetics and biology.

A Boy in Girl's Pants

Genderfuck dressing seems to leave me helplessly in lust.

Killer Drag Queens

Transvestites are not inferior to transsexuals: crossdressing is as legitimate as SRS.

Voice and Motion

The erotic power of androgyny is in performance. It is beyond physical beauty.

Masculinity / Femininity

Regardless of reason I seem helplessly drawn to the unmasculine.

Crossdresser Dreams

An odd, perhaps transitory erotic bias toward gay male transvestites.

Aloneness

Here in Durham, NC I don't see myself finding romantic companionship with a transgender person or gay male femme guy or anyone at all.

In Praise of the Pretty Male

Social rejection and confusion that conventional society feels in the presence of men who have qualities often thought of as female or feminine.

Ultimate Gender

Man and woman both male and female above and outside conventional singular gender boundaries.

The Ugliest Girl in the World

Chance is an artist and a male who wears dresses. His beauty may seem ugliness to the dull majority which is their blind loss.

Male Girlfriend

Loving gay male femme guys and crossdressers and transvestitites.

Female Supremacy & Gender Identity

Gynosupremacy and transsexuals. How would a transgendered woman fit in a gynarchy or matriarchy.

Casa Susanna

A secret save haven for crossdressers.

South African Transsexuals

Gender DynamiX, a new lobby group for transgendered people.

Heterosexual Men & Transsexuals

Some straight men feel a silly need to prove that they aren't attracted to transpersons.

Transvestite Acceptance

Crossdressers may find themselves as outsiders and freaks even as transsexuals slowly gain social and legal rights.

Haughty Transsexuals

Legal gender identity of post-operative transsexuals.

Softly, Gently, the Beauty of the Transgendered Manifests Itself

Gender outsiders, gender outlaws: they are lovely without ever knowing what they look like.

Boy ... Girl ... ?

Average Americans are still uncomfortable with males and females who don't seem to conform to gender norms.

A Transsexual Isn't a Fetish Object

I love my mtf girlfriend and it isn't because she is transsexual but that I love the human being.

I Am a Bad Person (& Worse!)

Hateful comments from some gay man who despises transsexuals, men who love them and is a sissyphobic homosexual.

Slim Gilt Souls: Inescapable

I didn't intend to love femme gay guys: the desire proved inevitable and delightful.

Between Passion & Purity

The joy of loving the gender queer, an explanation of my androgyno-phillia.

In Praise of the Artificial

Transgendered males work magic as they redefine, color and present and stylize their surface qualities.

Transgender Day of Remembrance

Protecting, loving and caring for transsexuals, transvestites and intersex persons.

What is Pansexual Sodomy?

The exalted beauty of the genderqueer, hermaphrodites, transvestites, transsexuals, femme gay guys and being free of simple images of gender norms.

Transsexual Discrimination Verdict Stands

Phillip or Philecia Barnes treated unfairly by Cincinattie police department says jury and courts.

Post Pomo Sexuality

Transgendered and transsexual persons face a life alone and misunderstood if they live in the wrong part of the world.

Ask the Pansexual Sodomite

Need advice? What can I tell you about pansexuality, being gay, loving transgendered and femme gay guys. This is your chance to gain an insight into my mind.

God Hates Transsexuals?

Christians attack gender reassignment surgery. Say no transgender person has the right to be a priest or minister.

Loving Someone Transgendered

My love for my mtf male girlfriend, hermaphrodite, transsexual or whatever she decides she is.

Alex in a dress

A photograph of my transgendered male girlfriend.

On loving a drama queen

My ex-lover overdramatized his life, unable to see the comedy and it killed him.

On internet friendship

Making and maintaining friendships made on the web.

Pristine Ann Gee

Man of two worlds, transvestite freedom fighter comes for a visit.

Boys wth naked ankles

Androgynous bodies and clothing.

Pansexual Richard & Transsexual Alex

Pansexuality and transsexuality mingle beautifully

So it is lawful to discriminate against transsexuals?

Tracy Nichole Sturchio, formerly known as Ronald Sturchio, sued the Department of Homeland Security.

Alex(andra)

Photograph of my male girlfriend, transsexual lover - you choose the damn label.

Male girlfriend?

A quick note about my knew girly boy, femme guy, transgendered lover.

Boys wearing aprons

Pretty youth wearing a woman's apron.

Feminine gay men & protectiveness (supplementary note)

Feminine gay males are often brutalized and bullied when they are young.

Even the homeliest androgyne

I'd rather date a transvestite or androgynous gay male than a straighting acting man.

Erotic adaptiveness and limitation

Temporarily at least I'm only able to find gay transvesties sexuall appealing.

Webcam romance & the fool in the mirror

Falling in love with a transsexual on a web cam and laughing at how funny and foolish my sexuality can be.

The (Nelly) Boy Seekers

Paperback cover with a drawing - not a very good one - nelly young gay men on the beach.

Bisexuality as a range

Bisexuality is more common, subtle and confusing than the average monosexual gay or straight person thinks.

Scarves, vests, boots, ponytails

Clothing fetishes, erotic associations with certain garments particularly with gay men and transvestites.

Gay men who want to be more feminine

Does my friend really want to have a sex change or is he tired of gay male sissyphobia.

Gay men who want to look more masculine

I like feminine gay guys. Pity so many gay men are worried about looking manly, masculine, butch.

Hijra rights

India's transgendered population are often called eunuchs, they call themselves hijras and deserve the civil righs.

Are you a transvestite's Mr. Right?

Gay crossdressers look for honorable, decent lovers. Most men who date transvestites are in denial of their true sexuality

On talking to a virtual friend for the first time

Knew him on the web for years, finally I called him on the telephone and we chatted and had a good time.

Choosing to not have gender reassignment surgery

One transgendered person explains why he decided to not have sex reassignment surger.

To Hell with crossdressers

Average gay men reject crossdressers and transvestites.

How to woo & win a transvestite?

Pity there are so few feminist transvestites, crossdressers who can accept that they are male.

Online crushes, virtual romance

Danger of gay men falling love from profiles, online chatting, personal ads, instant message charmers, seductive webloggers and Live Journal

Unrealized sexuality: pansexuality

Being a pansexual man every kind of person, every type of body, every fluke of biology is worthy of love and lust.

The pretty guy wasn't ...

The pleasure of confusing a woman for a man or a guy for a girl.

Unrealized sexuality: gay transvestites

If I had a gay boyfriend who crossdresser, a queer transvestite what would I want him to be like?

Books for, about transgendered persons

Short list of books dealing with transgendered issues, sexuality

Unrealized sexuality: hermaphrodites

Confessing and exploring my erotic wish to have had an experience with a hermaphrodite, ladyboy, use whatever term captures the double genderedness for you.

Sex with a hermaphrodite

Fantasies of making love to a differently gendered lover. Beauty of transpeople, lust for transgendered people.

Westboro Baptist Church at Gwen / Eddie Araujo trial

Fred Phelp's Westboro Baptist church arrives to celebrate the murder of Eddit Araujo

A boy with a girl's breasts

Self exploration and insight in to the erotic appeal that biological androgny has for me as a man

Transsexuals, lust & erotic idealism

Yes, I find pre-op transsexuals sexually arousing but I'm given more to idealistic desire than objectifying eroticism

Those lovely ladyboys (and my neo-puritanism)

As much as I love transgendered gay people and transsexuals I dare not let myself lust after they differently gendered status

You're like some vestigial heterosexual!

Boy wives, female husbands, male girlfriends does that make me a heterosexual homosexual gay man?

History of a Manhattan drag bar

Photographic documentary history of a New York City gay bar noted for its drag queens

Why do you like girlish guys?

My joy in genderqueer guys, gender outlaw males, feminine gay men, androgyny and androgynous sexuality

Boy Becomes Girl

Boy Becomes Girl pretends to be a 1950s magazine about ftm, male to female transformation

That drag queen is a doll!

Doll made to resememble or perhaps suggest a drag queen, crossdresser or transvestite

The qenderqueer

Happy pansexual male celebrates and honors genderqueer persons, gender outlaws

Gender Free Zone

There are people who don't feel at ease with their given gender

In praise of vain, silly guys

I'm a conventional acting man but I like silly acting guys

Coins in his pants

Insulting someone in a gay bar by putting coins in their pants

Chivalry, sexism & androgyny

Kind, sweet feminine gay guys have allowed me to indulge in the nostalgia of chivalry

Transgendered, Transvestite, Transsexual

The diversity and variety hidden by the labels transgendered, crossdresser and transsexual, intersexual, hermaphrodite

Pansexuality meets transvestite, transsexual

Pansexual that I am how would I love a transsexual differently than I would a woman or a guy?

Transgendered & dominance

Do gay male crossdressers and ftm transsexuals admire dominant men, bad boys more than the average feminine person?

Images of fey & gay

Depictions of feminine gay men, nelly queers, whathaveyou sought, early images of gay males

Infucated boys

Infulcation practiced by gay guys, infucated males, queer androgyny and makeup, cosmetics

Sissyphilia: thanks daddy

Male girlfriends, girlish boys, my admiration, respect and love for feminine men. Death to sissyphobia.

Androgyny & artificiality

I'm inescapably drawn to androgynous males and female and admire artificiality in all its charms.

The first time I saw a boy wearing eyeliner

A feminine gay male is more lovely than the most beautiful blond twink boy

Sissyphobia is as irrational as homophobia

Sissyphobic gay men, queer sissyphobes, gay male femininity abused: sissyphobia

Androgynous / Masculine : gender labels

Androgynous masculinity: gay masculine man, manliness, manhood finds fulfillment in recapitulation of womanly qualities

Porn doesn't make me horny

Pansexual sodomite doesn't get a big thrill out of porn, dull looking boys, no nelly gay guys to admire

Androgynosexual, Androgynophillia

Androgynophillia, Androgynosexual, Androgynophilliac, Androgynosexuality coined for the first time by Richard Evans Lee on October 31st, 2003

More gay male bottoms than tops? Why

Gay men who prefer bottom anal sex, queer guys who'd rather be on top: why?

Sissyphobia, homophobia & evolutionary psychology

Prehistory of homophobia, evolutionary psychology of sissyphobia.

Transgendered & passable

Male crossdressers, transvestites want to pass as women, females.

Gender & transsexuality

Gender is a funny idea, transsexuals exist along a spectrum of transsexuality

Transvestite dreams (without transvestites)

Dreaming about gender transcendent, ambiguously gendered guys and transvestites.

Feminine gay guys: what do they want?

Do fem guys what butch gay men, average gay guys or similarly feminine boys?

Nobody loves you when you are old & gay (and feminine)

Gay men, feminine gay men, fear growing older.

Pre-Raphaelite Crossdressers?

Sexism inherent in transgenderism, Pre-Raphaelite transvestites, feminine idealism, womanly purity, crossdressers slutty looks.

Email from a man with breasts who crossdresses

Bless the man who is more girl than boy, salute the crossdresser, appreciate the transvestite.

Gender play: dykes vs. fags

Butch gay women, lesbians, feminine gay men, fags, queers.

'O fairest mover on this mortal round,

The most beautiful, sexy gay boy I ever loved. Voice of a southern nelly gay boy.

It isn't easy being ambiguously, differently, dangerously gendered

Ambiguously, differently, dangerously gendered friend on Live Journal

Symbolist Androgyny

Androgynous males in symbolist paintings.

Giton from Fellini's Satyricon

Giton, a pretty boy in makeup from Fellini's Satyricon.

Gay transvestites (learning to appreciate their beauty)

A gay man who eventually learned that he finds transvestites sexually attractive. Discovering that crossdressers can be beautiful.

Transvestite humiliation story

Gay crossdressers craving for abuse, exploring my sexuality in a erotica story about transvestite humilation.

Old transvestite paperbacks

Early paperbacks featuring transvestites and draq queens, paperback cover art.

My friend of two worlds

Gay crossdressers, crossdressing, Yahoo's Tranvestite Groups Transvestites, fem boys.

Androgynous Fredi

Androgynous: male, female, not sure, beautiful anyway.

Androgynous young French pervert

Images of feminine gay men. The Perverts, French novel from the 1890s.

Choosing your sexuality

Pansexual: loving feminine men, masculine gay guys, women, drag queens: it is an act of will or involuntary.

Transvestites & gay 'phobes

Gay transvestites face laughter and disdain from gay men. Gay homophobia.

Hating gay stereotypes?

Hating gay crossdressers, bears, closet cases, assimilation, apologists, Republicans, Christians, interracial sex, promiscuity, homphobia.

Nelly gay guys (and the history of my love for them)

Nelly, feminine, fem, femme gay guys, boys, men: my joy in them, a history of my sexualities. Death to sissyphobia!

Choosing to be a hermaphrodite

Choosing to remain a pre-op trans-person isn't the same thing as being a chick-with-dick prostitute!

Looking for images of obviously gay men

Pictures of feminine, genderbent men, gender outlaws. Bachelor, an early gay male magazine.

Silly Mysteries of Sexual Beauty

Frippery that makes a nelly boy beautful

Crossdresser vs. transvestite

ILikeNellyGuysDurham

His lust is so sincere.

Tim Curry's androgynous beauty in Rocky Horror

Fem Boys From Venus

Feminine gay men in the Yahoo Clubs and Groups.