Why I Don't Write About Women
I do indeed lust after females but I don't have anything distinctive or novel to say about that aspect of my sexual, affectional orientation.
I do indeed lust after females but I don't have anything distinctive or novel to say about that aspect of my sexual, affectional orientation.
Masculine guilt over the death of an ex-lover haunted me and tore at me without my understanding the problem.
Or sadistic lust at least.
Running a gay callboy service in Atlanta, male whores, men who prostitute themselves, no fems!, cock size.
Nelly, feminine, fem, femme gay guys, boys, men: my joy in them, a history of my sexualities. Death to sissyphobia!
Men who are upset by foreskin, gay males who either desire or disdain the uncicumcised penis
Gay men and the mystery of their preference for cut or uncut partners.
Gay men who chase younger males and damnable NAMBLA.
Young TV actors - stars - that the pansexual sodomite to be lusted after as a boy.
Jamie Murray and John Barrowman : one pansexual's choice in contemporary celebrity beauty.
Ever lusted after someone so much that you wanted to abduct him?
The sometimes legalistic lore of summing up female appearance.
Sometimes the top is the sex slave of the boy who bends over.
Nouns used to describe sexuality require qualification, nuance and details to be used properly.
The annoyance and displeasure of not being able to achieve an orgasm.
What does a gay male top want from a queer femme bottom?
My heart is captivated by images of controlling a submissive gay male.
Is suicide better than wanting what, who you cannot have?
Could we find a saner, wiser way for choosing lovers as life-partners?
The infantile endocrine system may be a forgotten source of the formation of our mature sexuality.
Sexual desire becomes annoyingly distracting mostly because it is a sign of romantic longing.
On discerning that I've had a stronger sense of manhood than I long suspected.
Manhood and femaleness aren't really about power but means and manners of self-expression.
Power exchange: control, surrender, mastery, submission can be tender, sweet and loving.
Keeping my mind and heart open to exploring romantic love with someone even if they don't live near me.
Demon-haunted by visions of romantic love.
Age tempers us to the pangs of romantic longing and enables us to better if unhappily cope with our lust for love.
Theoretically I can love without regard to gender genetics and performance. But my longing keeps forcing me to focus on some particular example.
To never again have a weakness for weakness be made helpless by helplessness.
Not everyone subscribes to the conventional canons of physical attractiveness.
Imagine finding everyone sexually and romantically desirable and being unable to want anyone.
Here in Durham, NC I don't see myself finding romantic companionship with a transgender person or gay male femme guy or anyone at all.
Remembering the erotic beauty of the boys and girls of the late 1960s and early 1970s.
Sexual labels are impoverished and valueless without including the individuality and idiosyncrasy of the person using the label to designate their erotic orientation.
The label becomes more popular. I'm not sure that makes me happy. But I'm a finicky chap aren't I?
Looking at a wholesale catalog of yaoi manga prompts dreams of Japanese bottom boys.
Do you make a fetish of the size and shape of a man or woman's butt, chest and sleep only with someone who matches your ideal?
Are romantic musical comedies with happy endings sign of emotional unhealth, a flight from the reality of relationships and heartbreak?
Boredom and pain in a long distance relationship.
Feeling connected to all gender identities, every sexual permutation, erotic variation: the joy of pansexuality.
Imagine a gay man who doesn't enjoy pornographic movies. Well, weirdly enough I'm one of them. Clearly a case of being too romantic.
Imagine your perfect male / female / transgendered dominant / submissive romantic / sexual partner / lover / spouse and share that image with me.
A researcher sent me a quiz askine me to explain what being pansexual means to me as a man.
Everything you need for your complete entertainment and instruction: a once in a life time production.
Gentle, romantic retifism: her simple black shoes remind me of schoolgirl.
My mtf transsexual girlfriend is back in my life, he hold and touch one another, watch movies and hang out.
My lover is back and snuggling up against me once again.
Nostalgia and longing for a gay boy that I once loved who destroyed himself with drug abuse.
Learning at which point our unhappiness proves the failure of our relationship and that it is time to leave our lover.
Talking to each other won't save a romance when change is needed and doesn't come.
My last two lovers have been much younger but my fears of superficiality and foolishness proved unfounded.
The dark side of my homoerotic desires.
I love a sweet transsexual and suddenly my desires switch to male anatomy.
What is the latent same-sex erotic potential of most men and women. Can sexual and affection preference be learned and expanded?
My lover is a citizen of another country. American immigration law is unfair. My heart breaks.
Facing life without my beloved transgendered partner and hoping I'm strong enough to be happy alone.
The romantic-erotic yearning for your lover, partner, mate.
The pleasure of kissing, licking, massaging her feet and toes.
Sexual and affectional orientation: learned, socialized, inherent, can it grow or are people trapped by their sexuality?
Foreplay, afterplay: the joys of touching, kissing and nibbling your lover's body.
Straight and bisexual men who enjoy strap-on sex with women, their wives and girlfriends. Does it make them homophobic?
The emotional consequences of a gay man preserving his virginity from either fear or idealism.
A pansexual queer meditations on heterosexual relationships between males and females.
Perhaps not all heterosexual norms are as bad as I used to think. A quick note in queer gender studies.
I like being a gay male top. Though I wish I could get more pleasure from my vagus nerve.
My pansexual, impartial appreciation of all male, female, transvestite, transsexual human forms makes me happy and defeats life’s regrets and defeats.
My lover is British and we don't want to offend the INS by seeming to abuse the Visa Waiver Program.
Waiting for the ideal romantic partner, Mr. Right, may be the worst thing a young gay man can do.
Lack of libido can be worse than unsatisfied sexual needs. My beloved partner is away and I'm lonely.
Whether my erectile dysfunction is physical impotence or a emotional self-doubt I don't know.
If your beloved lives in another country, coping can be difficult. But it is better to have a distant lover than no one to love.
How would you handle being doubled cocked? Would it be better, inconvenient, troublesome or a wonderful thrill?
Need advice? What can I tell you about pansexuality, being gay, loving transgendered and femme gay guys. This is your chance to gain an insight into my mind.
Chaste intimacy with a stranger: it seems repulsive to me. For weaklings.
My lover must depart for the land of her birth, leaving me alone.
Sometimes I'd like to own and control another as a slave.
Androgynous bodies and clothing.
My transsexual lover returns, will I be able to be man enough for her?
Beginnings of a provisional attempt to define romantic love.
Pansexual Sodomite weblog of aytpical sexuality referenced in a newspaper.
Photograph of my male girlfriend, transsexual lover - you choose the damn label.
A quick note about my knew girly boy, femme guy, transgendered lover.
If my lover caused my sexuality to die can I ever forgive?
Romantic love will never survive without sexual satisfaction and respect.
Falling in love with a transsexual on a web cam and laughing at how funny and foolish my sexuality can be.
Loving needy people is a dangerous, deadly form of romance.
On being fulfilled as man by being needed buy a boyfriend, a lover.
For National Coming Out Day I write of my own discovery that I'm gay and coming out to loved ones.
Queer erotic daze somehow involving boots, fetish wear, sterotypical clothing.
Erotic fantasies about Tura Satana and Kitten Natividad but not Diana Rigg.
A story about watching a beautiful young man sitting across on a train ride home to a lover.
Bisexuality is more common, subtle and confusing than the average monosexual gay or straight person thinks.
Clothing fetishes, erotic associations with certain garments particularly with gay men and transvestites.
I like feminine gay guys. Pity so many gay men are worried about looking manly, masculine, butch.
Some gay men hate all heterosexual people. Some hate straight women even more. Why?
I enjoy being a gay male top, makes dating guys easier. But I wish I could get more pleasure from being on the bottom. Why can't I?
Caressing a gay male bottom's sacral hiatus will make him squirm with pleasure. True or not?
On being active or passive, top or bottom in my sexual relationships with other gay men.
My thyroid wasn't producing enough thyroid hormone and my libido died. Taking synthroid, Levothyroxine, brought my sexuality and sex drive back to life.
Gay men who enjoy receiving or inflicting a spanking on another man. Normal, sick, interesting, disturbing – what do you think?
Why do vanilla gay men enjoy golden showers as a form of sex play?
Growing older as a gay man, gay men and ageism, ageist behavior among queer males.
Thoughts about men who want to be sissified by women.
Best looking queer guy in Durham NC inspires thoughts about how the angle of view, body language, poses, postures affect someone's sex appeal.
Emotional and sexual affects on gay men as they enter middle age. Do they become perhaps a little foolish, crazy?
Twink: a word of gay slang that may be defined as an attractive, boyish man or more complicatedly according to personal prefrences and biases.
What it is to be a pansexual man: quick and easy definition for people with short attention spans.
Danger of gay men falling love from profiles, online chatting, personal ads, instant message charmers, seductive webloggers and Live Journal
Mistakes in love, errors in romance, loving wrongly, silly passion, bad lovers: even gay men can do all the wrong things when they are too romantic for their own good.
Being a pansexual man every kind of person, every type of body, every fluke of biology is worthy of love and lust.
I can appreciate the erotic charisma of masculine gay men but have always preferred feminine gay males.
I prefer gay men but probably could've lived as a heterosexual man with women, such is being pansexual.
Heterosexual woman and queer guy review dancers at a male strip club.
Do you find men with smooth or hairy chests more attractive? Do you shave your chest?
Do gay men find short guys less sexually attractive? Is being tall part of desirable in a man, being masculine
Why gay couples stay together. It is often more than beauty. Queer male sexual attraction is a complex idea.
I'm so happy to be a queer guy and not a heterosexual man
People may idiolize physical perfection but are happy finding an ordinary person to love
Some variations in sexuality are troublesome, even disgusting and often unexpected.
If I had a gay boyfriend who crossdresser, a queer transvestite what would I want him to be like?
Confessing and exploring my erotic wish to have had an experience with a hermaphrodite, ladyboy, use whatever term captures the double genderedness for you.
Gay male frotting cult, queer sexuality may or may not involve frottage
Asking Google for dating and romance advice and help
Are gay men mostly versatiles or are they divived between butch tops and bottoms?
Remember when gay personal ads used phrases like greek active and french passive?
I should've explored gay S&M, queer BDSM when I was younger, leathersex isn't a matter of wearing leather
Inviting my gay weblog's readers to suggest erotica, straight, kinky, whatever - will anybody have the courage?
When I was young I meant to sleep with a sex worker but never got around to it. What would you like to do?
Queer man has an unlikely dream of Elizabeth Hurley as a dominatrix
Sapiosexuality: a word denoting the sexual appeal of intelligence, Sapiosexual: people attracted to intelligent persons
As a gay man there's nothing I like better than another guys butt, my enjoyment of men's buttocks
I transcend gender categories, am indifferent to physical genderedness, love all mental genders
I'm a conventional acting man but I like silly acting guys
Discovering my gay sexual identity about age 18
Perils and flaws of internet instant messages and online chats
Do gay men worry more about the size of their penis than heterosexual men?
Sexual possibilities, expanded by weblogs and the web
Submissive behavior, qualities
Sexually attractive personalities, immaturity of web flirting
Androgynous Marc Almond, Marc Bolan, dark charm and beauty of queer lust for androgynous guys
Lables for sexuality do serve a purpose but you should never confuse the label with the individual
Distinctions between being gay and bisexuality
Silly gay men cite their straightacting.com score as a proof of their masculinity
Meditation on penis size, circumsized vs uncircumsized cocks and how gay men worship cock
Sir Ian McKellem, atheist, out of the closet, what could be sexier?
By what odd magic do gay men who enjoy being fucked manage to have an orgasm
Pansexual that I am how would I love a transsexual differently than I would a woman or a guy?
Cottaging is the practice of English, British gay men of having sex in the public toilets
Trigasm test: do straight, gay, tops, bottoms have the same orgasm?
Masculine gay man, Sir, seeks cooperative passive queer guy for relationship
Many more people are bisexual than they think
I think guys are sexier but women are sexy as well. Pansexual erotic musing on female erotic beauty
I'm not bisexual but pansexual, foolish notion that straight men are more masculine
Imaging a possible lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner for a single pansexual sodomite
Pining, hoping, yearning, craving a life partner and romantic love
Feeling dull I can't help but wish for a glimpse of an androgyne to enliven my spirit
If I leave my boyfriend will I be happy just to find someone to suck my dick?
Time to leave my lover? Would I do it if there were some kind transvestite, guy or girl near at hand now?
Queer as a three dollar bill Salvation Army protest.
Edmund White reviews Homosexuality and Civilization, Toward Stonewall, Sex Between Men Before Homosexuals
Playgirl is geared toward the normal queer, this twink is the closest they got to my taste in boys
I'm a queer sodomite, a happy pansexual man who loves androgyny by gesture or hermaphrodite biology
Gay man who is monogamous because he feels no desire outside of his relationship with his lover
Making love to a woman left me able to discern masculine appeal but I'll always prefer genderqueer gay men
Androgynous gay men are special to me. If you are a tranny chaser get the Hell away from my weblog!
A gay man shares his adulterous feelings as he worries about his life with the guy he loves
Post-gay a term for queer men whose lives aren't shaped by their homosexuality or gay politics, a dead neologism, rarely heard nonce word
Meeting a gay that you think you love on the web, instant message romance, internet dating
Online dating, web romance, cyber love can be wonderful or deadly be wary
My third anniversary with my gay male lover: fuck all homophobes!
Pansexual sodomite doesn't get a big thrill out of porn, dull looking boys, no nelly gay guys to admire
Choosing the word Sodomite to be part of my weblog's name, title.
Giving my gay male lover a Chuck Wagon Gang CD as an anniversary present
Gay men and straight women are prejudiced against bisexual men. Bisexuality misunderstood.
Erotic desire shaped by ideology, pansexual sanity and the beauty of male androgyny
The word pansexual defined, an attempt to capture pansexuality for the sexually curious.
Gay men who prefer bottom anal sex, queer guys who'd rather be on top: why?
Christian homophobia, Federal Marriage Amendment, Fred Phelps, homophobic Christians
Maybe my gay lover requires that I be more forceful, controlling, dominating, assertive, manly.
Prehistory of homophobia, evolutionary psychology of sissyphobia.
Using Google to find old lovers and friends.
The guy I love is mad, angry - should I move out?
Blog entries on love of transvestites, transsexuals, feminine gay boys in: Ambiguously Gendered on Pansexual Sodomite.
Gay porn about large penises and small anuses.
Dreaming about gender transcendent, ambiguously gendered guys and transvestites.
Do we have sexual feelings when we are young. Can't erotic aesthetics be distinct from mere lust?
Queer, fag, homo, homosexual: pansexual sodomite is glad to be gay!
Sane thoughts about online personal ads and meeting people.
Pansexual defined, definition of pansexuality, define pansexuals.
Gay questionnaire: what attracts me, essential gay book, gay men of differening ages.
Straight woman friend asks if she should have an affair with another women that she esteems greatly.
AOL chatrooms looking for gay love, lust on the online servies.
David Paul McCorkle of Atlanta and Albany GA.
Pansexual lust and pansexuality and love searches via Google.
In North Carolina trying BDSM site Alt.com listings as a personal ad.
Gay.com's chatrooms for Durham, NC, mature men, serious gay guys and transgendered.
I did hear from the crossdressing cop while looking for love on Hotmail's personal ads
Internet dating: just meet for coffee the first time, makes it easier to get away quickly and gracefully.
Yahoo clubs (now Yahoo Groups) gay man looks for sex and love online.
Gay Rednecks should easily disprove the myth that gay men are especially creative.
Ex-gay Christians don't want to admit that two gay men can commit as deeply as two heterosexuals.
Labels are useful but not to be abused, i.e., fauxmosexual, metrosexual, pansexual.
Edifying Spectacle's perhistory was as a huge personal ad, I was trying to use the website to meet other gay men.
Lover lost I ruin my life, later in Durham, NC lust reawakens, eventually the need for love.
Living in SF, using personal ads to find other gay guys to satisfy my happy and natural lust.
Lust: using personal ads in Atlanta to meet guy guys to have sex with.
Young gay man in Atlanta was never good in bars, went to Sweet Gum Head and didn't care for it.
Queer Eye for the Straight Guy and Boy Meets Boy are show many gay men will sell himself for cheap pop culture or foreskin, love is forgotten, lust dominates.
Sexual racism, erotic limitations, sex with different kinds of men, sexuality and pluralism. Pansexual sodomite pities the monosexual.
Online web petition for gay marriages.
Women don't lust after metrosexuals, sexist weblog comment.
Young gay males: age of consent laws.
Pederasts and gay assimilation.
I left San Francisco to peddle flesh in West Hollywood.
If I lost my lover would I be seeking crossdressers?
Being a telephone pimp in San Francisco.
The most beautiful, sexy gay boy I ever loved. Voice of a southern nelly gay boy.
Submissive gay virgin story request.
Living with a beautiful boy in Atlanta, he was a spacecadet.
Running Youngman, Incorporated, Atlanta's Plaza Drugs, Richard of SF, selling my body at the bus station, being a male whore in San Francisco
Savannah: learning that I'm gay, telling people, my friends, my mother, a teacher. Going into the closet when I find myself in jail afraid of having a broom shoved up my ass.
Finding out I'm gay in Savannah in 1972. Moving to Atlanta, San Francisco, happy to be gay, homage to the drag queens at the Stonewall Riot. Keats poetry, poems.
John Emmett Belue. Mad, bad and dangerous to know gay boyfriends. Mistakes in love, doomed romance in Savannah and Atlanta.
Meditation on the words: metrosexual, metrosexuality, pansexual, pansexuality, omnisexual, omnisexuality and bisexual and bisexuality. Wonder if homophile should've been adopted? Gay neologisms and nomenclature.
Jonno's cute dead guys archive from 19th century cabinet cards
Sexualities: I like feminine gay men, nelly boys, crossdressers, transsexuals, intersexuals, girls and women - I must be pansexual.
Giton, a pretty boy in makeup from Fellini's Satyricon.
Bisexual kid grows into gay man: beautiful boys everywhere, telling my teachers, avoiding homphobic tortures.
Gay man remembers golden boy from Shuman Junior High, wants to fuck the head cheerleader: sexual confusion. Momma was asexual until she was in her fifties.
Sexualities: my sexual self died, many male bed-partners, one woman, sexual coherence, blindness
Having many sexualities: women, feminine gay men, crossdressers, beauty of breasts and languid, pouting gay boys.
Surprised by bisexuality. Gay man finds himself in love with Siobhan Marie Sullivan, a woman, sleeping with, having orgasms with a woman, bitterness, romantic flaw, realizes he is pansexual, discover of love and lust for any gender quality. Homophile.
Gay monogay, virgins, monogamists and illusions of love and desire.
Queer sexuality: glamour of desire, orgasms, spiritual sexuality and raffish boys met on the corner. Urban erotic beauty.
Latent bisexuality, are people really pansexual. Prisoners, male hustlers, hasbians have same sex relationships for a time. Alien sex experiements on human sexuality.
Pansexual Masturbation Essay: shape of breast, kind of cock, choosing the right fantasy, sexuality, weblogs and Jackinworld
Femdom story to show dominant women my perception of Femdom relationships.
Multiple online personalities, IDs, accounts on Yahoo, AOL, gay.com, alt.com BDSM meeting.
Yahoo clubs, MS mesenger profiles, personal ads, black gay sadists & masters.
Heterosexual masochism and femdom: Discovering a desire to submit to a dominant woman after fantasizing cunnlingus with Playboy playmates
Masochistic gay male, wanting women to whip me? I'm a pansexual switch.
Femdom: my one experience with a kind dominant Femdomme woman dominatrix who met me via Yahoo her name was Ms. Zandra.
I'm a gay man so I can't take this quiz: Straight Men andWomen only. Opinions about Gay Male Behavior Poll
Pansexual: straight, gay? Big cocks or big breasts? Quiz diva.
Sexual purity test is unable to correctly judge gay, bisexual, pansexual people. Poorly designed online quiz.
Smooth redheaded boy in my sex dreams, Justin from Queer as folk (instead of Emmett?) and Mollie with red hair.
Pansexual sodomite weblog name - should it be gay, queer, fag, fairy, faery?
Sex quiz, libertarian left, diva, shemale, silly gender questions.
Pansexual: loving feminine men, masculine gay guys, women, drag queens: it is an act of will or involuntary.
Fear of the loss of romantic love.
My delight in fey, nelly, androgynous gay men sometimes called nancyboys and the vice called Sissyphobia.
Purple Onion strip bar in Atlanta back in the early 70s.
Hot Bachelorettes Who Want to Marry a Millionaire Chosen by America's Idols: sexual validation, mass culture, orgasms, self-understanding.
My transition from being a monosexual gay man to a pansexual male.
NAMBLA & Yahoo profiles, underage gay boys
Wanting and masturbating for an orgasm isn't as good as fellatio. Participate in a masturbate-a-thon.
Choosing to remain a pre-op trans-person isn't the same thing as being a chick-with-dick prostitute!
Quiz diva, silly online tests, live journal quizzes, weblog sexuality.
Finding gay movies to watch.
Frippery that makes a nelly boy beautful
Playful gay male paintings instead of the usual hypermasculine Tom of Finland art.
Adam Rickitt, Joe Dallesandro, Yaoi, Designer Boyfriends
Greenleaf classics: early gay erotica in paperback. Would like to hear about vintage gay erotica from other queer folk.
Tim Curry's androgynous beauty in Rocky Horror
Sexism and crossdressers
Dangers in having a kept boy